Oops, I did it again

I have changed my mind...

About my target market.

I'm going to share some parts of my journey in hopes that it resonates with those of you who find yourselves changing your mind (...and feeling bad about it).

Last month I began taking on clients for astrological readings and I realized I most love providing guidance during my readings on:

Career, business, callings & vocation.

Need I remind you, I am a trauma recovery coach and nurse practitioner.

At realizing this, my mind kinda did the whole "Goddamnit Molly, you're changing your mind AGAIN?"

And then I realized...I am judging myself.

There is a part of me not in agreement with this change and so I did what I am obligated to do:

Dive into it.

This part of me that is upset at me changing my mind kind of has a point.

5 years ago I began my trauma healing journey, 3 years ago became a trauma healing coach, and have leaned into trauma work ever since.

The knowledge of trauma healing was always something I found interesting and is HELLA important but is not entirely my thing to coach 1 on 1 about.

BUT THEN I tried astrological consulting and it has felt really good.

I feel like it aligns with who I am on a mental and spiritual level that other work I've done has not.

And even more so, I have loved to use it to help career-minded women be even MORE bada*s.

SO here I am going from women who have trauma to heal, to women who have businesses they want to build.

And perhaps there is some trauma healing work that has to be done on that journey.

But my aim is to help women gain clarity, confidence and connection with themselves as they go for their goals.

Clarity.

Confidence.

Connection.

So in explaining that to my part, I have understood that that part of me doesn't want me to lose all the work I've done for trauma coaching.

Which is understandable and ok.

I have room in me to hold that part that doesn't want change and at the same time, CHANGE.

And that is the message I have for you, dear reader.

It is absolutely ok to look like this dude when you're pivoting, making decisions and making changes to your goals and life. ⤵️

If there is one thing astrology has taught me, it is that EVERYONE has parts that do not align and change may take some parts of you longer than others.

I am a Virgo Sun and I have the issue of leaning really hard into one idea, even if it may not be "my thing" for the long term.

Pair that with a Taurus in my career house and I am screwed.

Once I latch onto an idea for work, I become so GROUNDED into it, that I have trouble pivoting.

But this is OK, if you learn how to manage it for yourself.

In the words of Britney Spears, “I don’t like defining myself. I just am.”

We are all allowed to change our minds and just be ourselves, moment by moment, doing the best we can.

I hope this resonates with you!

Don't be afraid to hold all parts of yourself even when they disagree.

You are big and bada*s enough, I promise.